Anything worth doing is worth doing well.  When you come to grips with that life gets easier.  If you are gay, be gay.  If you are Trans embrace it.  Being some small part of yourself to reduce the abuse you take from Christians/Republicans/Conservatives denies you the joys of being yourself.  In being less than yourself to avoid terrible people you end up being neither yourself or safe.  Those people will hate you just as much if you are quiet as they will if you are loud.  Which is why I have reached the point where my motto is….”You hate me?  Really?  Well than how about if I give you more reasons.”