It is an interesting exercise to try to go unnoticed wherever you go.   To not bother the “normal” people or make them feel uncomfortable.  It is not something I am particularly proud of, and it is utterly exhausting.

The odd aspect of this is that 7 out of 10 people could care less about people that are gay, trans, bi or whatever, but holy cow I spend an exorbitant amount of energy hiding in the shadows from those other three.   Because those three are loud.  Those three are looking for something to post on their Facebook.  Those three are the nightmare.