At some point it might be easier for everyone for the haters just to be honest. It wouldn’t be the nicest thing to do, but maybe the churches should get together and make a list of those that take LGBTQ people and which don’t.
I don’t really care about being unwelcome, but why not just say it upfront and save me wasting my optimism. A “we believe these people can’t be saved” list. Why not at least strive for honesty in your hatred?