The funny aspect of coming out to people is that it can be hard to tell if they are more mad at me for not telling them earlier, or at themselves for not knowing.  It is odd how personal it is for some people.

The worst is when they can’t let go of their frustration and try to build a case for “having known all along.”  This awful twist leads to gut wrenching revision of our shared history.

The irony of my honesty leading to so much delusion is not lost on me.